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Supporting Your Child’s Eating Disorder Recovery with Exposures
Eating disorders are sneaky, insidious diseases that create a tremendous amount of anxiety in the person suffering. The disorder has created an irrational fear that cannot be reasoned with. Therefore, the only way to alleviate the fear is to do the unthinkable--and eat the foods. Exposure therapy for eating disorders is like exposure therapy for OCD and other anxiety disorders in that they all share the same principle: exposure to a feared object, situation, or thought.

Allison Ober
Dec 5, 20255 min read


Autism and Eating Disorders
Eating disorders in autistic individuals are not just neurotypical EDs in disguise. They are often
driven by neurological differences, sensory processing patterns, alexithymia, and the emotional
toll of masking rather than a desire for thinness or a distorted body image.
By increasing awareness, challenging stereotypes, and advocating for neurodivergent-affirming
care, we can support autistic people on a path to recovery that honors their unique experiences.

Allison Ober
Aug 27, 20255 min read


Recovery Signs that Show You're Ready for College
TLDR: Going away to college is a huge transition for anyone, but especially for someone in eating disorder recovery. There are physical and emotional signs that you are ready for this step, such as absence of ED behaviors, maintaining weight, and comfort with a variety of foods and food situations. There are also some therapeutic challenges you can do to help increase your readiness. Eating Disorder Recovery Journey When it comes to eating disorder recovery, there's one unive

Amy Harman
Jul 23, 20254 min read


EMDR for Eating Disorders: How Trauma Therapy Can Support Lasting Change
For many people, eating disorders are closely tied to past trauma, such as abuse, bullying, neglect, or chronic feelings of being unsafe. The trauma can range from very serious to less disruptive, however it can still affect your wellbeing in the present. These experiences can leave lasting emotional scars that shape the way you see yourself and your body. Sometimes, food becomes a tool to manage overwhelming feelings like shame, fear, sadness, or the need for control.

Haley Kim
May 5, 20253 min read


How to Make Prom Dress Shopping a Positive Body Image Experience
Prom dress shopping can be difficult for those struggling with body image, but there are ways to make it better. Shopping with a support person, focusing on how the dress feels on your body, and remembering that you are the magic ingredient for a fun Prom, not the dress.

Allison Ober
Apr 23, 20254 min read


Exposure and Response Prevention Examples in the Treatment of OCD
OCD is a commonly misunderstood diagnosis, but a very treatable condition. ERP is the gold standard in treating OCD

Amy Harman
Feb 25, 20253 min read


Why Body Love Isn't the same as Healthy Body Image
Body love is hard to achieve, and it’s not necessary to have a healthy body image.

Amy Harman
Oct 19, 20244 min read


Take the EAT-26 Eating Disorder Quiz
The Eating Attitudes Test (EAT-26) is a self-report questionnaire to help diagnose eating disorders. Learn more here

Amy Harman
Sep 18, 20243 min read


The Importance of Honesty in Recovery
Honesty in recovery provides a strong foundation in the treatment of eating disorders, sexual compulsions, and other addictive behaviors.

Amy Harman
Sep 11, 20243 min read


Perfectly Imperfect: Compassionate Strategies to Cultivate a Positive Body Image
I'm so pleased and excited to announce that I wrote a book! I have wanted to share my passion about body image in book form for several yea

Amy Harman
Jul 8, 20202 min read


Generous Self-talk for the Holidays
During this season of giving, why not give generously to yourself by improving your own self talk? Here are some ways to shift your self-ta

Amy Harman
Dec 5, 20194 min read


Why Body Love Isn't the Solution for Body Image Problems
Are you tired of reading quotes about loving your body and not getting it? You’re not alone! Body love is hard to achieve. There are other w

Amy Harman
Oct 17, 20194 min read


Maintaining Positive Body Image at a Wedding
From dress shopping to the final post on social media, I'll give you some concrete tips to help you remain confident in your own skin.

Amy Harman
May 31, 20194 min read


Family Therapy in Eating Disorder Treatment
I have seen the benefit of family therapy in the treatment of teens and adults struggling with eating disorders. As with other addictions,

Amy Harman
May 9, 20193 min read


Prosperity Eating Disorders and Wellness Center
Announcing my new home! I recently moved from Utah to Virginia, and I found a great place to continue working as a therapist: Prosperity...

Amy Harman
Jan 7, 20192 min read


Redefining Masculinity
In the wake of the recent mass shooting at Stoneham Douglas High School in Parkland, Florida, the national conversation has turned to...

Amy Harman
Mar 5, 20184 min read


How to Know If You're in a Codependent Relationship
We here the word "codepedent" thrown around a lot, but do we really know what it means? By the end of this post, you will know whether...

Amy Harman
Feb 5, 20182 min read


Boundaries Basics
Most people have an idea about what boundaries are, but that doesn't mean that most people are great at setting boundaries. Discussing...

Amy Harman
Jan 20, 20184 min read


Making Body Positive Resolutions
So...anyone feeling pressure to start a new diet or exercise plan to make your body look better? Maybe lose a few pounds? Maybe tone up?...

Amy Harman
Jan 5, 20183 min read


How to Maintain Eating Disorder Recovery During the Holidays
If you're struggling with an eating disorder, you know how difficult the holidays can be. Celebrations and traditions almost always include

Amy Harman
Dec 20, 20174 min read
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